As the holidays start approaching some people feel lonely in their
heart when they feel depress about themselves.
Some people cannot get
over being alone during the holiday season as they reminisce the life they had
before the years has passed by when they did have someone in their life.
Sometimes it takes time to heal the broken heart when someone dear
to you is no longer at your side.
It is also hard when you just recently missed your family member
who is no longer at your side to celebrate the holidays with you.
All you have our memories that comes back in your mind as you
glance at the old pictures you have shared with each other.
Every one deals with this situation when the holiday season
comes. Some people are looking forward for the Christmas holiday.
There are some people who don't want to talk about it. They want
Christmas just to pass by as if it was just a regular working day.
How does someone deal with the pain in their heart?
The only way to deal with the pain is be surrounded by family and
friends who can pick you up when you are feeling down in the dumps.
It is best to talk about it when you are ready to share those
feelings that you can't seem to talk it about at the moment.
To you it feels like it is brand new. To you it feels you are the
only one in the world feeling the pain.
In reality you are not alone. There are a lot of people who are
feeling the same way.
But, their heart is has broken just like yours. They have memories
too and they are looking back on the past.
The past cannot bring those back to life. The memories you have
shared is the only good thing you can move on once you are really ready to let
go.
Letting go is the hard part in life. You are the only person who
can do it. No one can do it for you.
You can cry out loud when you are alone. No one can see all the
tears that pass down your eyes.
No one will know the feeling or the hurt you feel during the
holiday.
There are some people who hide and can't cope to share the
feelings they are feeling.
Those people need a hug and someone to give them a good cheer with
a support they can move on when the time is right.
Just think you are never alone. There are a lot of people who love
you and are willing to be there during your saddest moment of your life.
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