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Mom Violy's Birthday Lunch at Mamou, Gateway 2

Carmina asked Mom Violy what kind of food she would like to eat for her upcoming birthday. Mom Violy said she was craving for a restaurant that serves steak and lobster. Carmina gave Mom Violy a list of restaurants for her to decide with a link of the websites for her to see which one look something she would like to try. One week before Mom Violy's birthday she made her final choice where she would like to try  Mamou . Carmina had picked up Mom Violy at her home before heading to Gateway 2 located in Cubao, Quezon City. Mamou is located ground floor inside Gateway 2. Upon entering the person asked if we had any reservations however, they do except walk as well was seated at the table of our choice.  The person had handed us the menu. Beverages Menu Bread and butter were served after we had placed our order. Our appetizer was the Mamou's Bacon Steak. Mom Violy decided to order her lobster tail with rice. Carmina had ordered Beer Battered Fish and Malt Vinegar with choice of pot

LDR (Long Distance Relationship)

What happens when you just start a long distance relationship? Being in a long distance relationship is really difficult. In two worlds you don't know what they are doing.

In all relationship trust is apart of your commitment with one another. If, you cannot trust a person your mind will start playing mind games on you. You will lack sleep and appetite. You become reckless and your mind starts to drift to the unknown world of what if.

You won't be able to solve all those what if in your brain until you ask the person who your with those questions that keeps floating in your brain.

How does someone cope with the insecurity feelings that comes in their mind? You start thinking is this person even worth it or is your relationship worth to hold on?

I was telling my friend you are testing the water if your relationship is worth it or not. I think love is like when you gamble. You need to hold on to your cards or decide when you will withdraw one card at a time.

Love is like playing a game of Poker.

Sometimes the truth hurts when you hear it. But, that is life. Life is a gamble. You win some and you loose some.

When you do loose you tend to loose that trust. You tend not to trust any one who comes into your life. 

When you win you gain something greater.

All relationship is all different it is just based on how well you can control your feelings. 

Remember love is blind. No one will admit when they are deeply in love they are hard to be pulled away. It will take time to stand up again and move on with being in love with someone and feeling out of love.

No matter how we hear advices from someone and our heart is not ready to let go. That is the hard part when you have fallen deep in love. All doors are closed. You are not ready to open your door because you are fearing your heart will be in pain when he/she is not apart of your life.

The only first thing to ask yourself is he/she worth it. Can you live without him/her?  You are the only one who will know whether what you want to be in.

I was telling my friend she need to figure and ask those questions. I told her she need to get to know him more before you can say he is the one.

Love is a gamble. You need to control it with my brain not your heart. Sometime you can not do it even if it means you are doing something wrong.

The only support you can give your friend is be there for them what ever they choose to do.


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