Nokia 3310

Every time a new model of a phone comes out we tend to over excess ourselves in buying so many phone cases that comes in style.

I remember when I use to live in California and the phone that was in the market was the Nokia 3310 and 3330.

I had visited the Philippines and I brought my phone with me. My sister in-law had the same model phone like mine. She had told me that I can change the housing and the keypad. At first I didn't know what she was talking about. She had showed me what collection of cartoon character she had and other designs. She also told me you can change the color scheme of your keypad.

I wasn't aware of anything she had informed me. During my time I was just excited having a phone.

I realized during my trip people in the Philippines over exceed themselves in buying housing and keypad to make their phone unique as possible from other people.

You live in California we careless of doing those things we are more practical and use the phone how you purchase it.

My sister in-law bought me a lot of phone cases and keypad to bring back home.

I had visited my friends when I came back and it turned out they too have the same phone as mine. When my best friend saw my phone in a different housing and keypad she began questioning where I was able to buy those things.

I had told her my sister in-law gave it to me during my trip when I had visited the Philippines. 

During that point I didn't know my best friend also wanted the same thing. She began asking her relatives to order her same thing for herself and have it delivered to whom ever was visiting.

I gave my best friend my housing it didn't matter to me because I had so many.

I realized during my time when you have some thing your friends envy you not just the things you have, but the person you are.

I didn't want my friends to copy me. I decided to change my phone unit and ended up giving all my housing and keypads to my best friend.

I am not selfish. I am a very generous person. I can easily give some thing to my friends when I feel it will make them happy.

I didn't want our friendship to look like we had to compete in what I had based on what she wanted from me.

I couldn't understand her to the point our friendship had drifted apart. She became possessive toward me. Her husband couldn't understand why his wife was feeling this way toward me.

Naturally. I met her sister in-law first before I had met her. In some reason she wanted to be the center of attention. She didn't want me to block her from it.

I never did what she had imagine in her head. I was just my own self. It just happened I became close to her sister in-law and her sister in-law's cousin.

Anyway, when she was pregnant with her first baby she was uncontrollable, That her husband had to separate us from each other. She had mood swings and she wanted to see me. But, she hated when I was close to someone else.

Everyone in our group couldn't understand why she only that reaction toward me.

I have never encountered a best friend like that in my life.

I learn to disappear from her to me it won't be healthy for her baby that she was carrying in her stomach.

As years passed by I had already moved back to the Philippines I decided to message her in Facebook. I figure now that she has own family of her own may be how she had treated in the past would have changed.

We had added each other in Facebook. We chatted over messenger and always kept in touch to find out the years we lost in contact with each other.

I had decided to visit California with my mom. I had set a date to meet one month when I have already bought a plane ticket.

We had a date set to meet each other with my our other friends. I figure this way we can all meet her family.

Last minute on our schedule date she never message me or anything that she couldn't come. To this point I realized may be there was really some thing wrong with her. I couldn't figure her out any more. I felt we are at the age where there should no longer be a barrier between our friendship.

I decided to remove her from my Facebook and block her from my life.

I had informed my friend who was suppose to meet together with them.

I was right she had message my other friend she began looking for me. My friend told her you hurt her to the point she realized she no longer wants you in her life.

Her husband message my friend to the point until now I cannot figure what I did wrong to our friendship. I learn not to dwell on the past, but move on. I realize there are a lot of people who will change. There are some who will take your friendship for granted. There are far more better friends out there in this world.

I don't need the stress the bad feeling you carry over your heart just for the certain person.