Video Chat

I know a lot of people who lie about their real age. I have a co-worker who told me she is the same age as me. I went to look at her birth certificate she claimed they made a mistake.

In reality she is one year older. I am not sure why she has to lie her real age.

I only found out when one time she had a video chat with a stranger in Facebook dating. The guy who called, her up who she hasn't met yet said, he loved her and I had this question in my mind how can you say I love you to a person whom you've just called, up.

He had told her how old he was which ten years age difference. She had told him her age I found out later she is one year older than me. She had told the guy he can be her son.

I than tease her and called, her Ate (meaning older sister). She looked at me. I said, you are one year older than me why do you need to lie about your age. You should be happy when someone compliment about you looking younger than your age.

There was another time the same co-worker had received a call from another stranger and she wasn’t around that time I thought it was her daughter who was trying to ge a hold of her. I went to check who was calling her up. The guy’s name didn’t ring a bell. He hung up and left a message with a picture of his private. OMG! I was shock she was receiving those kind of stuff from a stranger.

Anyway, it realized in my mind how some people can get so desperate to want to do it with someone.

I had told my other friend what I saw and she said, that is so common she gets that too. She said, at least no one gets pregnant when they have those kind of video chat.

I wasn’t worried about that the stuff they do in the video call. I was just thinking they don’t know the person how they can show their body not knowing the person at all.

This is why I was shock and to other people it is just normal for them. Maybe I am more reserve and it didn’t make sense to me.

I just told my friend it is up to you what you do, but can’t people save your picture from your video call.

Later post it somewhere else she didn’t realize what I was trying to explain to her. I had explained to her for example we are video chatting and someone does a screen shot in our conversation in Facebook messenger. They can do the same thing when you are showing your private parts to them. She never realized it after I had explained it to her. She realized something and began to worry what I was explaining to her. She didn’t realize people can actually do that kind of stuff.

It had made sense after I show her when we had video chat with one another how someone can screenshot your conversation when you have a video chat. I explained your private parts become a private eye to the whole world who you don’t even know who you are talking too. Not only one person sees it but the whole world knows who you are.

I just warn my friend it is up to you want you do on your spare time. But, it is a risk you take when you talk to strangers who you share body parts to each other.

This same person had so many guys in her Facebook and these guys had no other picture. They look like hackers who just recently opened an account. My friend didn’t know how to delete all the men on her Facebook. As I took over her phone I had counted each one I had deleted on her phone. She had over sixty strangers on her phone and these people looked scary.

I told my friend you must be in public this is why you keep receiving message from strangers. She than explain she doesn’t know how to change her settings.

One time my friend had a new phone and I had transferred all her files. I came across her email because during her time she could no longer access her Facebook from her new phone. She couldn’t remember the password of her Facebook. She asked, me to access her email which I did and found out she is a member of a dating site no wonder she has a lot of strangers communicating with her.

I didn’t want to question her any more. She is old enough to decide what she wants to do with her life. Some people are happy this way and some people are not the type to do what their friends are doing.