Lashing Out

You have friends who keep things away from you because they feel if they tell you. You will always lash out at them saying things that they don't want to hear.

No matter they want to tell you in their heart they can't tell you because you give them negative feedback something they don't want to hear.

Even if you mean well and try to protect your friend they tend to rebel and do things against them to make them feel better.

I have this kind of friend who always uses to tell me everything going on with her life, but when she met someone I didn't like for her she began to change.

I even told her I am praying she find someone better that would treat her on what she deserve the reasons I said, this to her because the guy she fell in love with is the bad boy image our parents always warn us to stay away from.

My friend learn the hard way from not listening to me just like any teenager who doesn't listen to their parents as they warn them not to hang out with the bad guys people who influence you to do things even if you don't want too.

It becomes peer pressure you do things against your will because the people surrounded around you are doing it too.

You don't want to feel outcast when you are around them or what they call it the goody too shoe when I was younger that is what they called, me.

People try and explore and see if what they do is what they are.

They learn based on their experience if the image they see is really them, but sometimes you are drawn to the bad image and not realize it is all bad from you.

My friend said, it is my fault she became this way. I told her she is old enough to know from the right and the wrong.

My friend feels I pushed her away to do the bad things because I was being negative every time she told me something.

I told my friend to you it may be acting negative but to me it was giving you advices that your eyes would open wide but you we're so drawn to the person you thought was the real love of your life.

No matter what I tell you had lashed out and rebelled against it. You started doing bad things and not realizing who you really are.

You grew away from being the person your family knew who you we're and you lash out by posting things in the social media that your family became ashamed from you because it was never you in to begin with the cry out for help as you cried back realizing you made a big mistake in your life decision.

Your family had to reach out to you and to open your eye to see what kind of person you have become, the person they see is no longer the person they knew and they were not proud of your actions as you keep lashing out your problems.

Now you are falling because you went back to the same trap you went back too thinking there would be changes in your relationship with the bad guy.

The bad guy decided to break up with you the second time around not thinking he can do it all over again as your friend has warned you before if he can break your heart once he can break it again the second time around.

People misjudge their goody too shoes friends because they feel they have never experience what they are feeling inside. They feel they are clueless of what situation may have occurred, but sometimes people who do give good advices know what they are feeling it is just they didn’t know you at the time and may have experience when they we’re young or saw someone going through the same situation as you are occurring right now.

Sometimes we feel not to listen to people who lash out on you, but some time the people who are lashing out on you want you to open and see the world is not as bad as it seems.

There are far more better fishes in this world it just you haven’t catch the right one that will make your life better and not become the bad girl your family doesn’t want to see from you.