Chapter 16: Denial Stage

There are times when you come out in a relationship and you passed through a denial stage when you feel like you have moved on but you have this sort of feeling that is kept in back of your mind and in your heart hasn’t really fully gotten over with Jack.

Every day when Jack calls you up you still have that feeling excitement in your heart and you begin to think about the memories you have shared and on and off you delete him from your social account and ask him to be your friend again as you encounter this unsolved feelings toward him you don’t know how you can fully release him out from your heart.

In front of you there is Michael who has everything you wanted in a relationship but in your heart you have unsolved feelings for Jack and you’re not sure how can you fully focus your life back to him and fully move on.

As you consult your friend through video call you find it hard to admit you have unsolved feelings for Jack as you say bad things about him but those words means nothing at all is because you’re hiding what you feeling inside. 

Michelle kept smoking heavily and when her friend asked why she was smoking she would always say it is just I am stressing here at the house.

Michelle kept drinking at night to remove the feelings she was getting with Jack and she was killing her soar through alcohol and dancing it off to take it out of her head.

Michelle than gainned a bad habit from smoking and drinking alcohol any time of the day to relieve the feeling she had with Jack as Michael had no clue what was in her mind.

As days passed by Jack's mom called up Michelle if it would alright if she came over and stayed in her home for seven days. At first Michelle kept giving excuses to Jack's mom saying Michael cannot be left alone when I am not around because he got use too me being around in his home.

The second time Jack's mom called up Michelle had answered the phone call and placed it speak phone and Jack was next by her. Jack's mom asked,  Michelle can come over and visit me I miss her so much and would like to spend time with her. 

Michael gave in feeling sorry for Jack's mom and said, sure Michelle can come and visit you.

Jack's mom had planned to pick up Michelle the next day.

Michelle was pacing back and forth getting mad at Michael why he had allowed her to go see Jack's mom without letting her know ahead of time.

Why he had to make a decision without consulting her to make her look bad because she always gave an excuse she cannot go there because of Michael.

The night before Michelle will be picked up by Jack's mom Michael began crying to Michelle he had made the biggest mistake his life but he cannot turn back what he had already made a promise. 

Michael drank excessive alcohol to swallow his pride down to show Michelle he had realize what he made was something he can't remove but the pain thinking Michelle was returning back to her ex-boyfriend's parents made a big impact to him as soon she would be leaving for seven days with her having at his home.

Jack had called, up Michelle that he will be able to see her when she arrives at her mother's home.

Michelle had lied to Michael that Jack will not be home during the time of her visit he will be on the field set by his boss.

Michael would be secure not thinking Michelle would fall back in love with Jack.

Next morning Michael was cuddling on to Michelle tightly not wanting her to be preparing her before she would be picked up by Jack's mom.

Dealing with Promises Made:

• Sometimes we make promises to a person but we really don't mean it when that situation comes we are in a tight situation we don't think what we say when it comes out from our mouth.
• Sometimes we give in when you feel sorry or pity for someone and you say it without thinking itself clear.

To Withdrawal the Promise Made:

• Sometimes the promise you make you want to take it back but it is already too late to change your mind.
• You either cancel the appointment or make up an excuse so you don't hurt their feelings.