Chapter 9: Time to Have Friendship for Support

Michelle always told me her relationship problems with Jack while she was in Europe, and we spoke to each other every day for three months. I have seen her surrounding as we always had a video call. I was there when she was outside while Jack was working on the field for one month.

I was the friend who had supported her when she had told me what she was going through but every time I gave Michelle advice she kept thinking I was being negative we always fought with each other with our difference of opinion.

No matter if we always fought with each other, I still kept in touch with Michelle I felt she is so far away in another country anything can happen to her. I told her to look where the police department was so in case something happens to her with Jack she would know where to run too.

I always told Michelle to always have money and her passport with her never give it to Jack this way when you need to go somewhere you have your identity with you.

I told Michelle to change her password in Facebook, her email accounts and her phone this way Jack no longer had access.

Michelle knew nothing about Jack and getting to know a person for four months is not enough you don't know what hidden agenda they have at their back.

When you are going to the lowest point in your life a picker upper is your family and your friends close to you. Sometimes our friend needs us the most even if they are still dwelling in their past relationship.

Even if they explain it to you over and over again, we still need there for our friend there was one time Michelle had post on the social media she wanted to kill herself it was a post I was so worried for her I felt my friend was going to commit suicide.

I made a comment and told her the guy is not even worth it and why will you risk your life for what he has hurt you and he doesn't appreciate the person you are. You have a son, family and a friend who really love you and you don't need a man to put your spirits down.

I told Michelle I love her because she was feeling down and I really meant it the next day she woke up and she read all the messages I had sent because during the time she had post her comments she was drunk with alcohol.

Michelle kept sending me videos that she cannot handle the pain she was feeling and I felt she was asking for help from me.

When you have a friend calling for help in the hints, they keep giving you I am the friend who will be there for you any time and any day. Sometimes you are so worried for them and people around them gets affected the way they live but your friends don’t see the surrounding once they are clear minded and deny what they feel inside.

Michelle came to the point she wanted to hide from everyone she stops going online but she still kept crying and calling up Jack because she felt she wasn’t getting the answers she wanted to hear from him.

Michelle was going through the lowest point in her life where she wanted answers, and she also wanted to put revenge on a person who broke her heart.

Michelle had moments her emotional was stable and unstable it was a roller coaster of feelings that she couldn't control herself.

In one point in your life, you wake up and clear minded you realize all the silly things you post online, and you start to delete everything in your social media.

Conclusion:

• Your friend will hide her feelings and say she is feeling better
• Your friend will feel she wants to do revenge on her ex-boyfriend
• Your friend still has lingering feelings for her ex-boyfriend
• Your friend becomes delusional that the ex-boyfriend still has feelings for her
• Your friend will question why her ex-boyfriend is not responding to her calls

Highlight:

• Your ex-boyfriend will not respond to your calls and messages because he is over you
• Your ex-boyfriend has replaced you for a new relationship
• Your ex-boyfriend is feeling suffocated from you
• Your ex-boyfriend needs to sort out his feelings for you
• Your ex-boyfriend needs space