Mom Violy told me she wanted to order the Paella Negra from Dean & Deluca. Carmina suggested we dine in since we’d never really tried their main courses, always just getting takeout with the cream puffs . Mom Violy agreed, and we arrived about thirty minutes before the lunch rush began. The service was very slow, even though we had ordered ahead of time. They mistakenly brought out the Paella Valenciana , despite Mom Violy repeating the order three times to the person who took it. It turned out the cook on duty made the error, even though it was written down clearly. We know Paella Negra takes a long time to prepare, which is why Mom Violy had requested it to be cooked beforehand. She wanted it as her main meal, but because of the mix-up and feeling hungry, she took a piece of Carmina’s Turkey Club Sandwich and asked for the bacon on the side. I didn’t expect the turkey to be just one piece, and the bread was toasted so hard that it removed one layer of the sandwich. Since ...
As
our parents start to age and when you live in another country there is such
thing as caring for your parents how the Filipinos are custom to do when are
parents to reach an aged that they are not capable staying home without any
guidance. You realize and you begin to cry as Michelle saw in Jack's parents no
one cared to take care of them when she left her son and moved to another
house.
Michelle
had just realized when she didn't want to return back to Jack's neighborhood,
she never thought about what his parents we're going through when she wasn't
around.
Michelle
just realized how much Jack's parents we're neglected in the way no one took
care of them the sense in cleaning their home.
Michelle
had cleaned each day seeing the house they lived look like a house that was so
unkempt with cobwebs in the ceiling.
Michelle
had a dream that in her dream she had parents living with her and she realize
when you have parents who reach a certain age as they get older you cannot
replace a parent, but you can find a new loved one.
Michelle
decided to stay in Jack's parents' home longer by leaving and return after three
days as she explains to Michael her situation at Jack's parents' home.
Michelle
realized if Michael will not understand her situation, she realized Michael
doesn't love her enough to take care of Jack's parents who are the legal one
who sent the invitation to visit Germany so really, they are held responsible
for Michelle during her stay.
Michelle
realized more than that if she decides to leave Jack's parents in no doubt if
something we're to happen to them she would feel guilty she wasn't there when
an accident might happen.
Sometimes
in life you need to make sacrifices and choose the right pathway either you
have a love one at your side or you settle to take care of someone else's
parents.
In
every relationship you make sacrifices, and you also need to compromise to each
other to solve each solution you cannot take control all the responsibilities
other people in the family also need to show support in order to make a family
complete.
You
cannot judge a person the way they are because when you are so used to not
helping no one will know what mistakes they have made when someone is always
there to clean up the mess.
Michelle
needs to inform and consult Jack not by nagging but to let him know he need to
hold responsible for his parents wellbeing and she cannot complain all the
negative things she see in him because it will not solve anything but make the
situation worse.
You
have decided to take control and do it by volunteer there is no one to blame
only yourself because you did not include anyone else to help you out.
Highlight:
There
are some people who would rather do all the responsibility taking care of
someone else's parents.
There
are people who complain once they have finished what they had accomplished not
realizing they are the ones who didn't inform anyone about what they felt
during that time.
Sometimes
people who are not really blood related over bound themselves when they see an
elderly having a difficult time.
Sometimes
people who cross the boundaries over see things and make the real family member
a bad person.
In
every family there are flaws there is no perfect family but in order to solve
the solution is always communication because the more you pinpoint something
else than what you see the matter becomes worse.
Everyone
will bound to get too emotional and nothing else will be solved.
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