Mom Violy told me she wanted to order the Paella Negra from Dean & Deluca. Carmina suggested we dine in since we’d never really tried their main courses, always just getting takeout with the cream puffs . Mom Violy agreed, and we arrived about thirty minutes before the lunch rush began. The service was very slow, even though we had ordered ahead of time. They mistakenly brought out the Paella Valenciana , despite Mom Violy repeating the order three times to the person who took it. It turned out the cook on duty made the error, even though it was written down clearly. We know Paella Negra takes a long time to prepare, which is why Mom Violy had requested it to be cooked beforehand. She wanted it as her main meal, but because of the mix-up and feeling hungry, she took a piece of Carmina’s Turkey Club Sandwich and asked for the bacon on the side. I didn’t expect the turkey to be just one piece, and the bread was toasted so hard that it removed one layer of the sandwich. Since ...
When something new comes along and you worked off a new
friendship when that friendship vanish in thin air you start to begin to
wonder what you have said to that person.
In every friendship is just like having a relationship you
hold on to it just like you would hold on to your family, marriage, boyfriend
and girlfriend.
What happens when one person who had become a part of your
life vanish not even explaining yourself to you why they did what they did?
After watching a lot of videos about relationship to
understand myself better because this has never happened to me before I had to
understand that it wasn’t my fault to begin with it was the person who held
something against me.
When we come across a person like this you realize one thing
that all the friendship you still have is something greater than the friendship
you have just lost those are the friends who stuck to you just like any
relationship would have worked on.
I realize that I place myself to work on to something that
wasn’t really meant to be and I learned maybe I was putting myself available to
be always online for my friends.
I realize I need to make new changes because my old friends
are starting to think I like giving out attention to my friends but then I
realize I am not that person my friend is saying I never asked them to become
my friend or was I ever the one who started the conversation.
Why the blame or the judgement does go to me when I shouldn’t
be the one to feel guilty of something I have never done?
I decided to turn off my social media and see how it feels
if I wasn’t online during the times they see me how would it feel if I became
less active would they worry for me just like I did.
I wanted to let them taste that medicine when I was hurting
and I couldn’t control my emotions of shock and discouragement I kept hearing
over and over again from my other friends.
I realize my life is not moving forward it is just dwelling
on something you had missed but you can’t seem to understand what is happening
to yourself.
You become speechless and when you had watched the videos it
says to keep yourself away from social media to ignore people and not make the
first move let those people miss you.
There is a saying you are turning the table around to give
them a piece of their medicine.
You need to believe it is not your fault that you lost your
family, marriage, boyfriend, girlfriend or friendship it means they have move
on without you something is wrong with that person give them the space they
need to figure it out.
Or you really not meant to be in the first place, and they have
found someone else so when someone comes in your life again you know what not
to do be the opposite of what you had become give less information and give
less attention this way these people will miss you more.
Always continue with your daily life and never put a hold on
what plans you have made because this person who became a part of your life may
decide to leave again no family, marriage, boyfriend, girlfriend and friendship
are really forever someone is bound to let go of you.
Your life continues no matter who ends up leaving toward the
end and you still remain the person who destroys you, but you have become a
stronger person and more independent in your life and not changing it just for
someone to hold on too.
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