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Mom Violy and Carmina’s dining experience at Dean & DeLuca

  Mom Violy told me she wanted to order the Paella Negra from Dean & Deluca. Carmina suggested we dine in since we’d never really tried their main courses, always just getting takeout with the cream puffs . Mom Violy agreed, and we arrived about thirty minutes before the lunch rush began. The service was very slow, even though we had ordered ahead of time. They mistakenly brought out the Paella Valenciana , despite Mom Violy repeating the order three times to the person who took it. It turned out the cook on duty made the error, even though it was written down clearly. We know Paella Negra takes a long time to prepare, which is why Mom Violy had requested it to be cooked beforehand. She wanted it as her main meal, but because of the mix-up and feeling hungry, she took a piece of Carmina’s Turkey Club Sandwich and asked for the bacon on the side. I didn’t expect the turkey to be just one piece, and the bread was toasted so hard that it removed one layer of the sandwich. Since ...

What is the Limit Being Nice?


We come across people who are too nice when it comes in family, friendship, relationship or at work environment and it comes across when you’re too nice people tend to take advantage of you when you don’t limit yourself.

Being nice comes in factors where you are the following:
  1. Taken Advantage
  2. Taken for Granted to all your have done for someone

Sometimes we need to limit ourselves being too nice because when you give all you have for someone in any matter from family, friendship, relationship and work it all comes to one you don’t get recognized yourself and you become to have a more complicated life than others and it over laps with each other where you can no longer recognize your mistakes.

I am sure everyone has come across their life being too nice because we’re told by our parents. But, what they haven’t informed us there is a limit how nice a person can be in every life we have a limit to be nice or to be mean to any situation.

We cannot always say yes to everything someone asks from you we have limits to say no.

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