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Join us for a memorable family lunch at the Blackbird, nestled within the iconic Nielson Tower, where exquisite cuisine meets stunning panoramas.

Family was informed by their friends to try  Blackbird at the Nielson Tower  and asked Mom Violy if she has ever been there before. Mom Violy had no clue what it was asked Carmina to look it up and see what kind of food they serve.  Carmina gave the phone number to Mom Violy make a reservation for a family lunch. On the day of the reservation, we arrived early and were allowed to enter before the official opening time of eleven o’clock in the morning. We decided to stay in the lobby, where we were asked if we wanted anything to drink. Carmina took videos inside and learned about the history by talking to the staff. One hour later, people started coming into the restaurant and took their seats at the reservation table, browsing the menu to decide what to order. Our family members were running late, but we didn’t get bored thanks to the friendly staff. More customers kept arriving and placing their orders, and we couldn’t help but glance at their dishes, curious about what ...

Dealing with Early Dementia

 



Today someone in the house wasn’t happy how her Christmas tree was decorated next I know there was no more decorations it was placed in a plastic bag.

What happens when the person who had decorated the Christmas tree doesn’t remember she was the one who did it the second time around?

We have a family member who is under going through early dementia no matter if you tell her she was the one who decorated the Christmas tree she will not remember.


The family member wanted it to have fewer decorations on her Christmas tree and didn't like what color ornaments was on her tree.

The Christmas tree that Gina had decorated beforehand felt there we're too many things going on with the tree with big ribbons. The family member thought it was too busy and distracting the way she had looked at the tree.



From the moment on a person begin to age every year the memory gets worse and once the person stress themselves from their environment for a person who has been a perfectionist has always been a difficult time dealing with them.

Even when she wasn’t going through early dementia what happens when the environment she is not in she feels she wants to find a flaw in what anyone does around them.

All I can say it takes patience to be around those kind of people who knows one day we will reach that point in our life as we get old like them.

People with early dementia doesn’t mean to cruel to you or try to give people a hard time they are also reaching a peak moment of adjusting themselves to the life that is encountering to some people it takes a lot of admitting they are like this with personality changing.

No matter what let them win and guide them during the process of early dementia.

I had volunteered my two hours to decorate the Christmas tree as much as possible I tried to balance it out on whatever decorations we had. I had used my Christmas decorations that I brought along with me from California and combine the other ones that was available to contrast the color combination.


My snow man top tree is missing cannot be found went ahead and ordered one online with a skirt to be placed on the bottom of the Christmas tree finally it can be complete with Christmas gifts underneath.

Hopefully we can stop decorating our Christmas tree before it reach Christmas Day until now enjoy our tree how it is right now in our home.


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