Carmina planned to visit the newly opened Ikea at Trinoma on All Souls' Day , a Philippine holiday , thinking the mall would be less crowded. She didn’t invite Mom Violy, knowing she doesn’t enjoy going to Trinoma . While talking to Mom Violy on the phone, Carmina mentioned she was heading to Trinoma on Saturday, November 1, and invited her to come along, though she reminded her that she doesn’t like walking around that area. Mom Violy said she couldn’t recall ever visiting Trinoma, mentioning how aging parents tend to forget places they've been to. She expressed a craving for steak for lunch, so Carmina began searching for restaurants in Trinoma and sent her links to choose from. Mom Violy decided on Astons Specialties , which seemed to have the steak she wanted. Upon arriving at Trinoma, unfamiliar with the layout, they discovered two Garden areas where restaurants were located. At Astons Specialties, they were the first customers and were seated at a table, with compliment...
Today someone in the house wasn’t happy how her Christmas
tree was decorated next I know there was no more decorations it was placed in a
plastic bag.
What happens when the person who had decorated the Christmas tree doesn’t remember she was the one who did it the second time around?
We have a family member who is under going through early dementia no matter if you tell her she was the one who decorated the Christmas tree she will not remember.
The family member wanted
it to have fewer decorations on her Christmas tree and didn't like what color
ornaments was on her tree.
The Christmas tree that Gina had decorated beforehand felt there we're too many things going on with the tree with big ribbons. The family member thought it was too busy and distracting the way she had looked at the tree.
From the moment on a person begin to age every year the
memory gets worse and once the person stress themselves from their environment
for a person who has been a perfectionist has always been a difficult time
dealing with them.
Even when she wasn’t going through early dementia what happens when the environment she is not in she feels she wants to find a flaw in what anyone does around them.
All I can say it takes patience to be around those kind of people who knows one day we will reach that point in our life as we get old like them.
People with early dementia doesn’t mean to cruel to you or try to give people a hard time they are also reaching a peak moment of adjusting themselves to the life that is encountering to some people it takes a lot of admitting they are like this with personality changing.
No matter what let them win and guide them during the process of early dementia.
I had volunteered my two hours to decorate the Christmas tree as much as possible I tried to balance it out on whatever decorations we had. I had used my Christmas decorations that I brought along with me from California and combine the other ones that was available to contrast the color combination.
Hopefully we can stop decorating our Christmas tree before it reach Christmas Day until now enjoy our tree how it is right now in our home.
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