Carmina asked Mom Violy what kind of food she would like to eat for her upcoming birthday. Mom Violy said she was craving for a restaurant that serves steak and lobster. Carmina gave Mom Violy a list of restaurants for her to decide with a link of the websites for her to see which one look something she would like to try. One week before Mom Violy's birthday she made her final choice where she would like to try Mamou . Carmina had picked up Mom Violy at her home before heading to Gateway 2 located in Cubao, Quezon City. Mamou is located ground floor inside Gateway 2. Upon entering the person asked if we had any reservations however, they do except walk as well was seated at the table of our choice. The person had handed us the menu. Beverages Menu Bread and butter were served after we had placed our order. Our appetizer was the Mamou's Bacon Steak. Mom Violy decided to order her lobster tail with rice. Carmina had ordered Beer Battered Fish and Malt Vinegar with choice of pot
Short Sentence Used By Friends
Mind your own business.
I don’t care.
Why stress not your problem?
Don’t tell me people I don’t know not my problem.
Who cares what other people think and stop worry about what they think of you.
Why are you being negative about every situation?
Exactly (agreeing everything you say)
Let me complete my sentence.
Can you stop telling me stories each topic you have you end up having to say something?
Don't put words in my mouth.
Can you look this up in Google?
Can you do me a favor?
I have a problem can you give me advice.
By the time you’re done with this list you have nothing to talk about with your friend you tend to end the phone conversation or stay quiet on the other line.
Sometimes you wonder why they bothered calling you up in the first place if they want to control what you bring up in a conversation.
Did you ever wonder to hear what you tell your friends when you do this to them sometimes I feel they are stopping you from saying something and they just feel they want someone to hear what they want to say over the phone.
You also catch your friends not having a good day and they just want to feel wanted with their mood swings or you come across someone feeling lonely from a far distance they end up calling you for that attention they need from you.
How do you know what someone is feeling when someone doesn’t explain themselves to you when they start a conversation?
Do you pick up their hints or tone of voice toward the middle of your conversation?
Has this ever happened to you?
For me it has happen many times with my friends I feel I am the opposite from them where I
don’t do the calling of my friends one reason I don’t know their daily schedule. I feel if I call them they might be busy and I
don’t feel like the person to disturb them from their daily needs.
I do have friends who give me their daily schedule or you pick it up when they call you a certain time you kind of sense on your own when is the best time to message them otherwise I feel my friends can just call me up when they feel like it.
I can stop what I am doing to be the friend they need and if something bad comes by with the stories I will act worried to care for what attention they need.
If you stop me I am the quiet one I will no longer say a word and just pick up just having a silent friend on the other end but doing other things until you realize what you have told me affects me in what situation I am in if you say those words I have shared to you.
I do come across friends who apologize for being in bad mood and the only thing you can do is just forgive them it is not a really big thing for me to lose a friend over something they don’t want to hear.
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