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Mom Violy and Carmina’s dining experience at Dean & DeLuca

  Mom Violy told me she wanted to order the Paella Negra from Dean & Deluca. Carmina suggested we dine in since we’d never really tried their main courses, always just getting takeout with the cream puffs . Mom Violy agreed, and we arrived about thirty minutes before the lunch rush began. The service was very slow, even though we had ordered ahead of time. They mistakenly brought out the Paella Valenciana , despite Mom Violy repeating the order three times to the person who took it. It turned out the cook on duty made the error, even though it was written down clearly. We know Paella Negra takes a long time to prepare, which is why Mom Violy had requested it to be cooked beforehand. She wanted it as her main meal, but because of the mix-up and feeling hungry, she took a piece of Carmina’s Turkey Club Sandwich and asked for the bacon on the side. I didn’t expect the turkey to be just one piece, and the bread was toasted so hard that it removed one layer of the sandwich. Since ...

Telling a Story


I have a friend who says when I talk I have so many things to say every time we have a conversation.

They feel I don't run out of stories to share. They even tell me I must really be a blogger with all the entire details given when I am describing something. 

Sometimes you don't notice yourself when you're talking only realize you are the same way when you're family members do the same thing to you.

How do you stop telling a story out from not sharing the full details?

Is there such a thing when you tell someone a story by only giving a brief summary?

I have tried it before giving my friend a brief summary without a complete description the person seem not to understand my story so how do you cope with other people who careless to hear the full story of what you want to share with them.

To me I feel I want to share less information to the person who holds me back not giving much information and you realize which people you will want to tell stories too than the ones who control and complain what you tell them.

In our life we come across people who careless what you say but want to share their stories to you in every friendship we also come toward a road we come to travel and experience in our life when we talk to people we don't really know we learn the difference from them how we are so different on how they receive or hear from you.

There are a lot of people who I have learn to know during our pandemic months they have different types of emotional feelings and try not to interfere in their thoughts.

Sometimes they can also become selfish only wanting you to listen to what they have to say.

When it is your turn they turn their back not hearing anything or don't pay any attention what story you have to say.

All I can say it is unfair in every conversation should be equal this is when you learn who to talk too and who to share stories too is what I have learned from talking to people on the phone.





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